Gina's Deep Thoughts About Life: Help From The Almighty

Have you ever thought that your presence is help from God for the success of others?

Well, I have.

One day, when I was participating in a race, participants were required to take a test to measure their swimming skills. I feel relieved because I have no difficulty in swimming and other swimming techniques like floating and diving. Among all participants, I saw the look on the faces of some participants who panicked because they could not swim. Because it was not my turn for the test, I decided to help participants who had difficulty swimming. I taught them how to float, dive and even swim. After several trials, they were finally able to pass the swimming test even though the results were not very satisfying (and my swimming test results are better than them). At the end of the race stage, the participants I helped during the swim test were selected as winners and they got prizes.

Am I angry?

Of course I am.

I feel angry, disappointed, distrustful, and even felt betrayed by the final results of the competition. I feel like a fool who gives free opportunities to others. I blame others and accuse them of taking my fortune.

When can I forgive others who (I accuse) seized my fortune?

When I was about going home, the participants I taught swam come over to me and thanked me for teaching them. Even though only one who won the race, people were grateful for me very much. This makes me feel like a useful human being who able to help others achieve their success. And that's when the feeling of anger that had enveloped my heart and my mind instantly disappears.

The funny thing is, this isn't the first time something like this has happened. And I always respond it the same way: angry and blame others for the failure I received, then I reflect on the incident, then try to think positively accept the reality and not hold grudges to others.

By letting go of negative feelings I felt the burden I had been slightly reduced. I felt revenge would only make my life ruined. By becoming a hater, I will become a person I hate myself. Therefore, until now I am still learning to be a better and more useful person to the people around me.

♥g

ps: without offending anyone, this writing I made to reflect the development of my attitude in dealing with problems

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